What counts as a "first-time home buyer"?
The federal definition (used by HomeReady, Home Possible, and most state DPA programs): a buyer who has not owned a primary residence at any point in the last three years. Other paths to first-time-buyer status: a single parent who only owned a home with a former spouse, a displaced homemaker who only owned a home with a spouse, an individual who owned only a non-permanently-affixed manufactured home, or an individual who owned only property that did not comply with state/local building codes. Veterans who used VA before still count for first-time-buyer-paired programs because VA eligibility is separate.
How much do I really need to put down?
It depends on which program you qualify for. VA eligible: $0. USDA-eligible (rural): $0. FHA: 3.5% (or 10% with credit 500–579). Conventional (HomeReady/Home Possible/Conventional 97): 3% on 1-unit primary. With state DPA layered on top, many first-time buyers close with $0–$2,500 of their own funds — the DPA covers down payment and closing costs are seller-paid or rolled into a small lender credit.
Can my parents (or anyone) gift me the down payment?
Yes. Conventional, FHA, and VA all permit 100% gift-funded down payments from a documented source (family member, employer, charitable organization, or government DPA program). The gift requires a signed gift letter and a paper trail showing the funds moved from giver to borrower. Gift funds cannot be used for reserves on most programs — those have to be the borrower's own seasoned funds.
What is down-payment assistance and how does it work?
DPA is a second mortgage or grant that funds part (or all) of the borrower's down payment and sometimes closing costs. Three structures: (1) deferred-payment second — no monthly payment, repaid only when the home is sold/refinanced/paid off; (2) forgivable second — the loan converts to a grant after a residency period (typically 5 or 10 years); (3) shared-appreciation second — borrower repays principal plus a percentage of appreciation when they sell. Each state has its own programs; many counties and cities layer on top.
Is FHA always the right answer for first-time buyers?
No — FHA wins when credit is below 660, DTI is above 45%, or down payment is well below 5%. Conventional (HomeReady or Home Possible) wins when credit is 700+ and the borrower can put 5%+ down — the reduced PMI cancels at 80% LTV, while FHA MIP often stays for life. We run both quotes side-by-side every time. About a third of first-time-buyer files end up on conventional that started thinking FHA.
How does the VA loan compare to FHA for a first-time buyer?
If you are VA-eligible, VA almost always wins: 0% down vs FHA's 3.5%, no monthly MIP vs FHA's 0.15%–0.75% annual MIP, and the funding fee is one-time (and waived entirely for service-connected-disability veterans). The only scenario where FHA might beat VA is if FHA-paired DPA programs in your area significantly out-fund VA-paired programs — and that is rare.
Do I need homeownership counseling?
For most first-time-buyer programs, yes. HomeReady, Home Possible, and nearly every state DPA program require at least one borrower to complete a HUD-approved homebuyer education course before closing. The course runs 4–8 hours, costs $50–$100, and is available online. Plan to do it 30+ days before closing — the certificate has to be in the file before clear-to-close.
Will I lose first-time-buyer status if I have owned a home before?
Maybe, maybe not. The federal definition resets after three years of not owning a primary residence — so if you owned a home but sold it more than three years ago and have rented since, you qualify again. Specific exceptions: single parents who only owned with a former spouse, displaced homemakers, and a few other categories qualify regardless of prior ownership. Worth running the question on a specific scenario before assuming.